Grace Zabriskie

 ( 1941 Births ) 

Grace Zabriskie (née Caplinger; born May 17, 1941) is an American actress. She is known for her roles as Sarah Palmer in Twin Peaks (1990–1991; 2017) and its film prequel (1992), Lois Henrickson in Big Love, as well as in cult films such as two of David Lynch's films: Juana Durango in Wild at Heart (1990) and Visitor #1 in Inland Empire (2006). Other film roles include Norma Rae (1979), An Officer and a Gentleman (1982), Nickel Mountain (1984), (1986), Leonard Part 6 (1987), Drugstore Cowboy (1989), Child's Play 2 (1990), My Own Private Idaho (1991), Fried Green Tomatoes (1991), Even Cowgirls Get the Blues (1993), Armageddon (1998), Gone in 60 Seconds (2000), and The Grudge (2004). She is also known for her recurring roles on such shows as Seinfeld (as George's fiancée Susan's mother), Charmed, and Ray Donovan.

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Early life Zabriskie was born in New Orleans, Louisiana, the daughter of Marion Grace (née Zabriskie), of Wyckoff, New Jersey, and Roger Thomas "Tom" Caplinger. Her mother had distant Polish and Dutch ancestry, and was a relative of James Zabriskie, a 19th-century railroad industrialist and early pioneer of California.Wanda Tomczykowska. The Silent Heroes: Polish Contributions to California. Polish Arts and Culture Foundation, 1994 Zabriskie has said that her family was visited by Tennessee Williams, Gore Vidal and Truman Capote during her childhood. Her father owned the famous French quarter gay bar Cafe Lafitte in Exile.

In the early 1960s, Zabriskie was among a circle of the New Orleans friends of author and Discordianism co-founder Kerry Thornley. At one point, Thornley began work on a novel about her titled Can Grace Come Out and Play? Thornley later claimed to have had an "eight-year-long, off-again-on-again, affair/friendship/rivalry/ego-game/karmic unraveling" with her, but Zabriskie described it as "four and a half minutes in bed" after a discussion on the exclusion of sex from their friendship—shared with Zabriskie's then-husband Rob—as being "irrational".

Her sister, Lane Caplinger, worked as a typist in New Orleans District Attorney Jim Garrison's office. Caplinger is reputed to have covertly produced all five copies of the first edition of the Principia Discordia in 1965.

Adam Gorightly (2025). 9781618613219, RVP Press. . ISBN 9781618613219

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Career After making her major film debut in Norma Rae, Zabriskie went on to appear in dozens of other works, including the 1981 Roger Corman horror film Galaxy of Terror and the 1981 miniseries adaptation of John Steinbeck's East of Eden. She played the nanny in The Private Eyes, Debra Winger's mother in An Officer and a Gentleman, Heather Langenkamp's mother in Nickel Mountain, and Paul Le Mat's mother in The Burning Bed (starring Farrah Fawcett). She had a small but crucial part in the fifth season finale of Knots Landing. In 1988, she played Richard Mulligan's love interest "Eva Barrett" on the hit NBC sitcom Empty Nest.

She appeared in 1989's Drugstore Cowboy and as the ill-fated orphanage owner Grace Poole in Child's Play 2. Other movies include the 1991 film adaptation Fried Green Tomatoes and Philip Ridley's 1995 film The Passion of Darkly Noon.

Zabriskie is perhaps most familiar for her television work. After a recurring role on the soap opera Santa Barbara, she appeared on David Lynch's Twin Peaks and its spin-off film, as Sarah Palmer, the eerily psychic mother of the doomed Laura Palmer.

Zabriskie also appeared in Lynch's Wild at Heart—notably as the twin sister of a character played by Isabella Rossellini, an actress eleven years her junior. David Lynch later cast her as a sinister Polish neighbor in Inland Empire in 2006.

Zabriskie may best be remembered as Mrs. Ross, a recurring character on the sitcom Seinfeld. She played the mother of another doomed daughter, Susan Ross—George Costanza's fiancée—who died after licking cheap envelope adhesive when mailing out her wedding invitations. Zabriskie's character's husband on the series, who also appeared in a recurring role, was played by her former Twin Peaks co-star, Warren Frost.

She also made a brief but memorable appearance in the episode "S'ain't Valentine's" on the CBS sitcom The King of Queens, as the emotionally disturbed and alcoholic mother of Spence Olchin (played by Patton Oswalt). While the character Veronica Olchin would reappear throughout the series, Zabriskie would not portray her again, having been replaced by Anne Meara. She also appeared twice in Aaron Spelling's series Charmed as "The Crone".

She has worked in radio, collaborating with radio dramatist/monologist Joe Frank several times. In one episode of Frank's show, "Home (Original)", she talks at length about her childhood in New Orleans, with a focus on her father.

Zabriskie appeared in the 2004 American remake of The Grudge, in which she played a senile elderly woman Psychic to the paranormal occurrences in her home.

From 2006 to 2011, she played "Lois Henrickson" on the hit HBO series Big Love. The drama series seriously explored the issue of polygamy,Sellers, John. "The Zabriskie Principle: Why the Big Love Finale Wasn't Really a Shocker", The Wrap, March 21, 2011.

In 2013, she played "Mama Dips" on The Killing.

In 2015, she played "Miss Monassian" on the hit Showtime series Ray Donovan. Then in 2016, she played "Mildred" on Outcast.

In 2017, she reprised her role as Sarah Palmer on the Showtime revival of Twin Peaks. Also in 2017, she played the role of "Mrs. Baković" on the Netflix series Santa Clarita Diet.

In 2018, she played "Enid" on the hit HBO series Ballers, opposite Dwayne Johnson. Also in 2018, she played "John's grandmother" on The Alienist.

In 2020, she starred in the music video for Grouplove's "Youth", directed by Christopher Blauvelt.

In 2022, she portrayed "Camille D'Amato" in the Hulu limited series Mike, opposite Trevante Rhodes as Mike Tyson.

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Personal life In her early 20s, Zabriskie "had an intense friendship” with Kerry Wendell Thornley; this friendship was "centered around an intense shared love for and fascination with the philosophy of Ayn Rand". Although Thornley claimed that he and Zabriskie had an affair that lasted over a decade, Zabriskie denies this and states that their friendship ended due to Thornley's belief that she was involved in a conspiracy.

In May 1963, she married John Dunham MacEachron. Zabriskie has two daughters: Helen, who became an actress and Marion Lane, a painter. In 1993, Helen died of Hodgkin's disease. Marion died in 2019, aged 56, of cancer. In 2006, she told the Los Angeles Times, "You can make your life an absolute bummer out of the inevitability of death. Or you can decide to absorb this blow and figure out a way to exist with as much energy and creativity and lack of fear as you can".

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Filmography

+Film
1978	They Went That-A-Way & That-A-Way	Lem's Wife
1979	Norma Rae	Linette Odum
1980	The Private Eyes	Nanny
1981	Galaxy of Terror	Captain Trantor
1982	An Officer and a Gentleman	Esther Pokrifki
1984	Nickel Mountain	Ellie Wells
1984	Body Rock	Chilly's Mother
1986		Mama
1987	Rampage	Naomi Reece
1987	Leonard Part 6	Jefferson
1988		Sheryl
1989	Drugstore Cowboy	Bob's Mother
1990	Megaville	Mrs. Jessica Palinov
1990	Wild at Heart	Juana Durango
1990	Child's Play 2	Grace Poole
1991	Ambition	Mrs. Wendy Merrick
1991	Servants of Twilight	Grace Spivey
1991	My Own Private Idaho	Alena
1991	Fried Green Tomatoes	Eva Bates
1992		Pat
1992		Narrator/Magi Lune (voice)
1992		Sarah Palmer
1992	Chain of Desire	Linda Bailey
1993	Stone Soup	Olympia
1993	Even Cowgirls Get the Blues	Mrs. Maria Hankshaw
1994		Louise	Short film
1994		Gloria Pierce
1994	Drop Zone	Winona
1995	Desert Winds	Jackie's Mother
1995		Roxy
1996		Ruby
1996	Bastard Out of Carolina	Granny
1997	Seed	Mother's Voice	Short film
1997	Psycho Sushi	Great Aunt
1997	George B.	The Mother
1997	Dead Men Can't Dance	Brig. Gen. Burke
1997	Annie's Garden	Mrs. Felicity Barnes
1997	Sparkler	Sherri
1998	Armageddon	Dottie
1998	Dante's View	Geraldine
1999	Trash	Mrs. Wendy DeMarie
1999	A Texas Funeral	Murtis
1999	Me and Will	Edith
2000	Home the Horror Story	Grace Parkinson
2000		Olga	Short film
2000	Puppy Love	Jeanette Foley	Short film
2000	Gone in 60 Seconds	Helen Raines
2001	They Crawl	Mrs. Gage
2002	R.S.V.P.	Mary Franklin
2002	No Good Deed	Mrs. Karen Quarre
2003		Allison	Short film
2004		Mrs. Stella Allison
2004	Chrystal	Gladys
2004		Emma Williams
2004	Sabine and the Two-Headed Baby	Sabine	Short film
2006	Inland Empire	Visitor #1
2007	Careless	Adrienne
2007	License to Wed	Grandma Jones
2007	Alternate Endings	Mom	Short film
2008		Madam
2009	Bob Funk	Mrs. June Funk
2009	My Son, My Son, What Have Ye Done?	Mrs. Joan McCullum
2013	Wrong Cops	Donna
2013		The Warden	Short film (shot in 1988)
2014	Blind Malice	Nanna
2014		Sarah Palmer	Archived footage
2014	The Judge	Mrs. Anita Blackwell
2014	The Makings of You	Margaret	a.k.a. Never My Love
2015	Only Child	Delores
2015	Christmas at Rosemont	Josephine
2019	Polaroid	Lena Sable
2020		Emma Williams	Archived footage
2021	Cryptozoo	Joan (voice)

+Television
1978		Widow Cummins	TV movie
1979	Concrete Cowboys	Mrs. Kate Barnaby	Episode: "Concrete Cowboys"
1979	Freedom Road	Ruth Lait	TV movie
1980	CBS Afternoon Playhouse		Episode: "Lost in Death Valley"
1980	Blinded by the Light	Emily	TV movie
1981	East of Eden	Mrs. Catherine Ames	TV miniseries
1981	Hart to Hart	Ethyl	Episode: "A Couple of Harts"
1982		Kathryne Baker	TV movie
1983	Tales of the Gold Monkey	Dr. Clouet	Episode: "Last Chance Louie"
1983	M.A.D.D.: Mothers Against Drunk Drivers	Silvie Alice Kohler	TV movie
1983	Cagney & Lacey	Adele	Episode: "Affirmative Action"
1984	My Mother's Secret Life	Maggie Ryan	TV movie
1984	Knots Landing	Chambermaid	Episode: "Negotiations"
1984		Flossie Hughes	TV movie
1984	Paper Dolls	Cathy	Episode: "1.8"
1985	ABC Afterschool Special	Mrs. Linton	Episode: "One Too Many"
1985	Santa Barbara	Theda Bassett	17 episodes
1985	North Beach and Rawhide	Hearings Officer	TV movie
1985	Shadow Chasers	Mary Komatar	Episode: "Shadow Chasers: Part 1"
1986	Hill Street Blues	Terry Sylvestri	Episode: "Das Blues" Episode: "Scales of Justice"
1986	Cagney & Lacey	Eva Sikorski	Episode: "Model Citizens"
1987	Falcon Crest	Mabel Burton	Episode: "When the Bough Breaks" Episode: "The Cradle Will Fall"
1987	Mistress	Deanie	TV movie
1988		Mrs. Barris	Episode: "Ties That Bind"
1988	My Father, My Son	Mouza	TV movie
1988	Shooter	Sister Marie	TV movie
1988	Empty Nest	Eva Barrett	Episode: "Pilot"
1989	The Ryan White Story	Gloria White	TV movie
1989	Unsub	Alma	Episode: "White Bone Demon"
1989		Psychologist	TV movie
1989	Moonlighting	Rita	Episode: "In 'N Outlaws"; uncredited
1990	Tales from the Crypt	Mrs. Colbert	Episode: "The Secret"
1990	Hometown Boy Makes Good	Helen Geary	TV movie
1990–1991	Twin Peaks	Sarah Palmer	13 episodes
1991		Genevieve	TV movie
1991	Blood Ties	The Woman	TV movie
1991	Intimate Stranger	Dana P. Ashley	TV movie
1992	Freshman Dorm		Episode: "Pilot"
1992		Ruby	TV movie
1992, 1996–1998	Seinfeld	Mrs. Ross	5 episodes
1993	Bonds of Love	Emma	TV movie
1993	Miracle Child	Adeleine Newberry	TV movie
1993		Ethel	TV movie
1993	Banner Times	Momma	TV movie
1993	Double Deception	Dr. Kester	TV movie
1993	Sirens	Female Store Owner	Episode: "Keeping the Peace"
1993	Angel Falls	Cuema	Episode: "Fall from Grace"
1994		Sandy Henry	Episode: "A Body to Die For: The Aaron Henry Story"
1995	Crazy for a Kiss	Pearl Kinross	TV movie
1995	Children of the Dust	Rose	TV movie
1995	Under Suspicion	Lily Cassins	Episode: "Hostage Standoff" Episode: "Wrongful Shooting"
1995	Empty Nest	Scarlett	Episode: "Life Goes On: Part 1" Episode: "Life Goes On: Part 2"
1995	Fallen Angels	Virna	Episode: "The Black Bargain"
1995	NYPD Blue	Wanda Padzik	Episode: "The Bookie and the Kooky Cookie"
1996		Francie Harper	TV movie
1996	Second Noah	Mrs. Cheval	Episode: "Stormy Weather"
1996	Murder at My Door	Grandma	TV movie
1996		Retired CIA Agent	Episode: "Touch of the Dead"
1997	NYPD Blue	Millie Banks	Episode: "A Remington Original"
1997	High Incident	Mattie	Episode: "Remote Control"
1997	Over the Top	Dolly	Episode: "The Southern Story"
1997		Rose DeMarco	TV movie
1998	Dharma & Greg	Naomi	Episode: "It Takes a Village"
1998	Houdini	Mrs. Weiss	TV movie
1998	Profiler	Mrs. Boudreaux	Episode: "The Sum of Her Parts"
1999		Veronica	Episode: "S'ain't Valentine's"
2000	Jesse	Grandma Rose	Episode: "Jesse Gives Birth"
2000		Isobel	Episode: "In the Shadow of Two Gunmen: Part II"
2002		Judith	Episode: "The Dead"
2002		Sylvia Goodstein	TV movie
2002–2003	John Doe	Yellow Teeth	6 episodes
2003	Charmed	The Crone	Episode: "Baby's First Demon" Episode: "Sense and Sense Ability"
2005	Medium	Connie Buckley	Episode: "The Other Side of the Tracks"
2006–2011	Big Love	Lois Henrickson	52 episodes
2013	The Killing	Mama Dips	3 episodes
2015	Ray Donovan	Miss Monassian	6 episodes
2016	Outcast	Mildred	4 episodes
2017	Santa Clarita Diet	Mrs. Baković	2 episodes
2017		Sarah Palmer	6 episodes
2018	The Alienist	John's Grandmother	4 episodes
2018	Ballers	Enid	2 episodes
2019	Hot Streets	Senkah (voice)	Episode: "Super Agent 2"
2022	Mike	Camille D'Amato	3 episodes

+Video games
1993	Voyeur	Margaret Hawke	Actress (FMV)
2022	The Quarry	Eliza Vorez	Voice, motion capture and likeness

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